Thursday, April 5, 2012

April's antics of the Divorcee

Being the 5th of April you wouldn't think that Sybil has had much time to come up with anything new to do BUT my dear friends you would be wrong. Sybil has to have SOMETHING to do with her time since Ronald's older brother FINALLY opened his eyes and left Sybil and her head games for another woman. So once again Ronald and Alissa are under "attack". For 3 days straight Sybil refused to answer the phone when Ronald Called to talk to Stacy and Jeb. Finally when he was able to get a hold of her all she wanted to talk about was money (i know big surprise right folks) She informed Ronald that she has not received child support yet and there fore she wasnt answering the phone. She just went through yet another child protective service investigation where one of Sybil's "close friends" turned her in for not only drug abuse but allowing Bryan to BEAT Stacy and Jeb. This is the 5th Investigation in 4 years. The system continues to fail these poor children. Check back dear friends for the rest of this story as soon as Sybil thinks of her next act!!
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APRIL 11th 2012
  Once again it has been DAYS since Sybil has answered the phone but once again Ronald was persistant and she FINALLY did pick up the phone. She however didnt let the children speak to Ronald but instead went on a tirade about money! Sybil says and i quote " I will not answer the phone again until i get my child support" Its this bystanders point of view that she must be pretty hard up for a "hit" if shes going to stoop so low as to try this tactic once again! Sybil has already been told that visitation and child support ARE NOT combined. SO apparently Sybil is looking to get yet another lawyer (she hasnt even paid her last one yet) and head back to court yet again!

Monday, March 12, 2012

based on TRUE life

This page is to follow the antics of a desperate divorcee that i know. The names of the parties in involved have been changed to protect the innocent. Enjoy!So that no one reading this gets confused below are a list of the people involved in this gruesome persons twisted head games.
Ronald = the ex husband
Sybil = the ex wife aka the desperate divorcee
Alissa = Ronald's new woman
Bryan = Sybil,s new man and Ronald's older brother
Stacey = Ronald and Sybil's young daughter
Jeb = Ronald and Sybil's young son
Connie = Ronald and Alissa's daughter
Tommy = Alissa's son ****************************************************************************
I suppose the best way to start our tale would be at the very beginning. For all intents and purposes young Ronald and Sybil had a very short and intense whir wind romance that led this couple to the alter and vows were exchanged.  8 months later Sybil gifts Ronald with the gift of his first born daughter STACEY.  Sybil starts to show her true colors by picking fights with Ronald and calling him at all hours of the day when he was at work. if he was 5 mins late getting home from work she would yell at him that he was cheating on her. Finally Ronald "woke up" and Ronald and Sybil separated.  During this time Sybil would call Ronald's family (starting at 6:30am) and ask them to tell her where he is what hes doing and if he will ever come back to her and would they please talk him into coming back to her and Stacey.  Her calls got so bad that Ronald's family formed a "phone tree" to warn the others Sybil was making her rounds. Reluctantly Ronald's family agreed to talk to him and Ronald returns to his wife and child. its not long after that Sybil becomes pregnant again with their son Jeb. This pregnancy again makes Sybil paranoid and she picks up where she left off calling Ronald every time she could (even while he was at work). Jeb is born and things go from bad to worse. Sybil's mind gets locked in an endless struggle of paranoia. Finally after 3 years Ronald leaves Sybil for the last time.  Filing for a divorce Ronald attempts to start his life over with his new girlfriend Alissa. To anyone watching from the side lines it is clear that Sybil has no intention of letting Ronald and Alissa have a moments peace as she quickly files paper after paper with the courts trying to keep Ronald from having any contact with his children. She starts off with supervised visitation where Ronald has to basically go to a center with the sheriffs office and he can see his children for 1 hour ever 2 weeks. During this time Stacey tells her father in front of a officer that a wooden cooking spoon is often used to spank her when shes at home. Child protective services are contacted and Sybil is investigated she cries and whines telling a alot of bs crap to the case workers who find that there are no grounds to remove the children from Sybil even though one of her children admits to being beaten. As time goes on Ronald is granted wensdays every other weekend with his children. During  these visits Ronald and Alissa start to notice more and more brusies on Stacey and Jeb. They start to document each mark so that Sybil doesnt try to say they did them. At long last the day arrives that the divorce is complete and Ronald should be able to move on with his life but alas that isnt the cause for this poor young man.. Sybil tries to have his arrested for non payment of child support! Fortunately for him the judge sees right through this money hungry woman and doesn't have him thrown in jail. Ronald keeps working and pays his child support but that isnt enough for Sybil she wants him to be as miserable as she is SO since she cant get to him through the courts any more she tries a different tactic and turns their children against Alissa. the children (mostly Stacey) defy everything Alissa says on their weekend visits.       Sybil starts a relationship with Bryan  (Ronald's older brother) thinking this would truly be the final straw to "break" her ex husbands spirit. Sybil moves Bryan into her great grandmother's home with them and proceeds to live off of Ronald's child support. One thing leads to another and child protective services is again called to Sybil's grandmother's house. This time they make Sybil and Bryan take drug test that  come back positive for drugs. (At this point you would THINK that Sybil would loose her children but no she again cries and gets a bs sob story that they again believe painting Ronald and Alissa in a bad light). Sybil takes every opportunity to haul Ronald into court for as many reasons as her drug twisted mind can think of trying hard to get more money from Ronald for her drugs and partying lifestyle. (She refuses to get a job to support herself when she can just try to squeeze more and more money out of Ronald and his new family (Alissa, Connie and Tommy). Finally Ronald and Alissa  realize the only way they will get any peace is to move away. Packing up their home they move 2 states away but the Desperate divorcee  still tries to disrupt their happiness by refusing to let Ronald see his children. Filing papers and going against what the court has decided Sybil takes matters into her own hands and keeps Stacey and Jeb from their beloved father. Luckily for Ronald  Alissa hires a lawyer to hand all of Sybil's little tricks and mind games. To date she continues to have Ronald's license suspended. Little does Sybil realize if she continues trying to have Ronald "locked up" or his license suspended  she wont receive the child support that she so desperately desires for her little habits.
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This is the first installment of the desperate acts of a divorcee. I hope that you enjoyed it and will follow the rest of it as Sybil tries to come up with new tactics to use on this poor man that she conned into this lifestyle